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We place children at the heart of the mediation process. If you are going through a divorce you will want to make sure that your children’s needs come first.

We explain to children what the mediation process involves and can offer them access to sources of support, if this is required. During mediation we also take the time to explain to children what is happening, encouraging them to talk to their parents about the decisions that their parents are making. Mediation is not counselling or therapy, but unlike a fraught court case, it can involve children from beginning to end.

Mediation also promotes better communication between parents. By working together to find solutions, parents can improve their ability to co-parent effectively. This can lead to more consistent and stable arrangements for the children, which is crucial for their emotional and psychological well-being. Additionally, mediation can be more flexible and responsive to the unique needs of each family, allowing for tailored solutions that might not be possible in a court setting.

Another significant advantage of mediation is that it often leads to quicker resolutions. Court proceedings can be time-consuming and expensive, whereas mediation sessions can be scheduled more promptly and are generally less costly. This efficiency can help families move forward more quickly, reducing the period of uncertainty and instability for the children.

In some cases, mediation can also include the voices of the children. Child-inclusive mediation allows children to express their wishes and concerns directly to the mediator, who can then relay this information to the parents. This ensures that the children’s perspectives are considered in the decision-making process, helping to create arrangements that are in their best interests.

For families considering mediation, it’s important to find a qualified mediator who is experienced in handling family disputes. Many mediators offer initial consultations to discuss the process and determine if mediation is suitable for the family’s situation. In some cases, legal aid may be available to cover the costs of mediation, making it accessible to more families.