Grandparents and Child Arrangement Orders

August 27, 2025

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Can Grandparents Apply For A Child Arrangement Order? Being a grandparent should be is a special relationship. Most grandparents want to be in their grandchildren’s lives. Family problems can make this hard. You might not get to see your grandchildren because of fights, divorce, or a relationship breakdown with the parents.

Grandparents and child arrangement orders
What right do grandparents have.

In the UK, grandparents do not have an automatic legal right to see their grandchildren or to be involved in a child’s upbringing. The law allows you to ask for a court order if you want to keep in touch. This is a Child Arrangement Order (CAO). A Child arrangement orderhelps you spend time with your grandchildren. A court order sets boundaries and rules.

What Is a Child Arrangement Order?

A Child Arrangement Order sets out:

  • Where the child lives.
  • When and how they spend time with others, like parents or grandparents.
  • issues around the child’s needs.

The order is made by the court using the Children Act 1989. This is used to sort out contact with a child after a breakup or when there is a family problem. The order can also help someone ask for guardianship of a child.

A child arrangement order can allow you spend time with your grandchildren agreed by the court. In some situations, it may allow your grandchildren live with you.

Do Grandparents Have Legal Rights?

In most cases, you need permission from the court before you can make an application to the court. This step is called applying for “leave” to apply.

You must show the court that your application is genuine and in the best interests of the child. If the court agrees you can then apply for a child arrangement order.

Why Would a Grandparent Apply?

You may want to get a child arrangements order if:

  • You are not allowed to see your grandchild.
  • The child’s parents have split up or got a divorce.
  • There was a fight or problem in the family between you and other members.
  • The child may be in danger.
  • The child is now in the care of a local authority. But you want to be involved in the child’s life.

In these cases, the court will look at what is best for the child. It will not just think about what the adults want.

What Will Court Proceedings Do?

The court will always look at the best interests of the child. It will ask:

  • What is the relationship between grandparent and grandchildren?
  • Is it best for the child to have contact with the grandparent?
  • Are there any dangers? Domestic violence or harm to the child’s feelings?
  • How do child’s parents think and feel?
  • Have the grandparents tried mediation with the parents?
  • What types of contact does the children have with grandparents currently.

Step 1: Try Mediation

Before you consider court, you will usually have to have a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. Also known as a MIAM. Mediation helps you and the parents make an agreement together. The assessment meeting gives you information about how mediation works.

If mediation does not work out or the parents will not agree. The next steps are to apply to the court.

Step 2: Asking the Court for Permission

To begin, you have to ask the court if you can apply first. The court will then look at:

  • Your relationship with the child.
  • Why you are applying.
  • Any problems this might cause.
  • If there is a good chance for your case to win.

The court will decide what is best for the child’s upbringing based on these factors.

Step 3: Applying with a C100 Form

You will need to fill out a C100 form to apply to the court. This is the application to begin child arrangements. This is where you state what kind of contact or arrangement you want for the child.

If you are worried about safety or welfare of the children. You may need to ask for an emergency order.

What Happens in Court?

Once you send in the C100 the following things will happen.

  • CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) may check the background. They may talk to you and the parents to get an insight of what is happening.
  • You will then go to a First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA) in the family court. The judge, the CAFCASS officer, and both sides will each talk about what is going on.
  • A written report may be made to help the court make a decision.
  • If there are still problems or risk of domestic abuse, the court may plan further hearings.

What Orders Can the Court Make?

The court may give different orders based on what is happening in the case.

  • A Child Arrangement Order shares when a child can see a parent or grandparent and where they will live.
  • A Specific Issue Order helps settle one clear question, like which school a child will go to.
  • A Prohibited Steps Order stops someone from doing something. Like changing a child’s name or moving them to a new location.

Each type of order is in the child’s best interests and helps manage a wide range of decisions.

Can Grandparents Get Custody?

Yes, in some cases, this is a possibility. If the child’s parents are not able to care for the child safely. The grandparents may want the child live with them. This is when the grandparents want to have parental responsibility for the child. You will need to show proof that this is in the child’s best interests.

How Long Does It Take?

  • The court process may take a few months. It can depend on:
  • How hard or easy the case is.
  • If the parents agree or do not agree.
  • If the case needs more hearings.
  • How fast CAFCASS can finish reports.

Simple contact cases can be sorted out more quickly. But cases that are more hard or if there is any risk, it can take more time.

What If I Want to Change the Order?

If things change, you can ask the court to update the order. You will need to show why a change is necessary and how this will help the child.

This might happen if:

  • The child is now older and will need a new schedule.
  • The contact is not being followed.
  • The family has moved, or things have changed for them.A change will only be possible with the permission of the court based on these factors.

Is Court the Only Option?

In many cases, families can work things out with mediation. You can create your own terms of the agreement. You can ask the court to legalise any agreed chances. This is often quicker, costs less, and is not as stressful as going through a full hearing.

Reaching good terms with each other through mediation helps protect family relationships. It also helps you stay out of court.

Are Court Orders Punishments?

Some people feel that a court order may cause problems or feel like they are being punished. But that is not what it is for. A CAO or prohibited steps order application helps keep the child safe. It also sets the rules that everyone can understand.

The court will not place blame on anyone. It is there to help a family move forward. The goal is to support the child’s upbringing in a safe and healthy way.

Conclusion – Can Grandparents Apply for a Child Arrangement Order?

When an order is made, it needs to be followed by everyone involved. If a person does not follow it, the court can take action. This might be a warning at first. In more serious cases, the court may give fines.

A lot of families find that having a clear plan makes things easier. This can lower stress and stop more fights from happening.

Grandparents are important. They should offer love, care and support. They should want to help keep things steady for their grandchildren during difficult times. If you are being kept away from your grandchildren, the law may help.

Applying for a Child Arrangement Order is a big step. But you can do it with good advice and support. It is not about taking over. It is about doing what is best for your grandchild.

If you do not feel sure about what to do next. You can talk to a member of our mediation team by arranging a callback here. They can explain your rights and let you know your options.